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I first met Adrian during a lab meeting when I was floundering with my first research project and trying to find my feet in the lab. Usually students present pilot studies, future plans, or troubleshooting steps on their way to optimise an experimental protocol.

Adrian stood up and presented the figures to what was to become his first research paper, accepted and published in the best immunology journal in the world, Nature Immunology. I was impressed and intimidated. Even as a PhD student, Adrian seemed to be in his element. He would join the lab head and senior post-docs in asking probing questions during lab meetings, and would deliver scathing analyses of other papers during journal club. Even back then, he was an excellent mentor, improving thesis drafts or demonstrating the scientific method to undergraduate students, completing a Graduate Certificate in Higher Education to improve his teaching skills.

It was only later when I came to know him on a personal level that I learned how hard he had worked to reach this level. He had sacrificed every summer in his undergraduate degree to work in a research laboratory, running experiments and producing figures that would be published in peer reviewed publications even before he finished his Bachelor of Science.

He chose his PhD lab very carefully, interviewing at numerous institutions before finally finding one with the best opportunities. Here he worked every weekend, every night, designing experiments, talking to other scientists, and thoroughly reading the literature until he could keep up with the experts in his field. He made some great friends during that time, as he was always willing to talk over scientific or personal problems over a beer or two.

He knew that an excellent publication record was essential to succeed in academia. Every experiment was a figure in a paper. If he had to wait for some lab work to come to completion, he spent his time writing reviews and book chapters. At the beginning, Adrian never turned down an invitation to write a review – even if it was only a foreign print-only publication, he would still write a new and insightful manuscript on one of his areas of interest.

He continued in this manner through his post-doc, which meant that he was impressive enough to be awarded a start-up grant to create his own lab here in Belgium. I remember the first day he walked into the building – just an empty room – no furniture, no equipment, no staff. For the past three years he has worked tirelessly. He applied for every grant for which he was eligible, meanwhile recruiting staff and students, and setting up national and international collaborations. Knowing how stressful it can be to complete a PhD, he ensures that his students have every opportunity for success and fulfillment. They all have the opportunity to write their own reviews, and to have their own primary research paper as soon as possible. Plus he bought them a Nespresso coffee machine.

Today he received a letter stating that his latest research has again been accepted into Nature Immunology. However this time, nine years later, he is now the senior author on the paper. He has now been recognised as a leader of a world-class research laboratory conducting novel and cutting-edge investigations. I am so proud of him. Congratulations, Adrian.

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Yesterday I came home from work to find Adrian and Hayden playing happily together, with dinner in the oven, and a week’s worth of clothing washed and folded. All I had to do was sit down to enjoy a meal and talk to them both about their day. Adrian is doing an extraordinary job managing a world-class research laboratory while also being a wonderful husband and father.

On the weekends he will take care of Hayden while I go off to parties, and during the week he is responsible for dropping off and picking him up at crèche. Adrian already had a very long commute – walk to the train station, catch a train, then catch a bus. Now he must also trek all the way up the hill to the crèche before walking all the way back down to his lab. This means that it can take up to two hours from leaving the house to reaching his office door. He never complains about this, just commenting that it is extra quality time that he and Hayden can spend together.

Whenever I am away from the two of them, Adrian constantly sends me photos, sound files, and other updates. So I can still hear Hayden babble along and see his sleepy face, even if I’m zooming away on the metro.

I love watching the two of them together, the way that Hayden grins at Adrian during the silly games that they play. These two guys make me smile so much, and I am continuously grateful for all the numerous daily efforts that Adrian makes to make sure that his family of rascals is as happy as can be.

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Adrian has been away from his girls for nearly two weeks, in Cuba and the USA for conferences. We are all glad that he has returned safe and sound. I watched the live status updates for all his flights, and I was always relieved when I got a message telling me that he had checked into his hotel. His luggage arrived a day late, but when it did he pulled out a sack of gifts for all of us.

He brought me home a snug purple scarf, luxury socks, some French Grammar study cards, and cute photos of puppies from his travels.

Little Peppermint were treated to a Purrfect Feather Cat Toy and a catnip-filled bird, as well as plenty of treats. Adrian was concerned that I had trained them not to eat people food as well as to wait quietly while their food was served. Now that he is back and spoiling them, they seems to be drifting back into her old bad habits. All his girls are happy to have him home again.

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There is no sign of turkey or pumpkin pie around here, but I would still like to spend a few moments giving thanks for the best thing in my life.

Adrian is an amazing person, and I feel so honoured to be his wife. He works so hard at the lab – nuturing his students and staff while designing elegant experiments to increase our understanding of disease. He loves learning about world history and politics, avidly following elections throughout the world. Yet he always makes sure that we have enough time together to relax and explore, and is constantly showing me that I am the center of his world. He makes me smile and laugh, and for that, I am truly thankful.

Photo by Robert.

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